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4 tips for managing long distance co-parenting

Co-parenting is one of the most promising of emerging trends for parents who are looking to do what is best for their kids after a divorce. If you want to avoid the tension and stress that so often accompanies custody disputes, it may be the best option for your family. This can be complicated, however, if one parent moves away and no longer lives in close proximity to the children. If you are attempting to balance long distance co-parenting, the following tips may be helpful. 

Send gifts and reach out regularly

If you will not be seeing your children on a regular basis, it is essential that you go above and beyond to remain a part of their lives. One of the most effective ways to do so is to send packages and gifts, and call or write as frequently as you can. Both of these are effective means of staying connected to your offspring, and they will appreciate your presence even if you are not physically there.

Establish a regular schedule

According to Psychology Today, scheduling conflicts are a regular problem plaguing exes who are attempting to co-parents. Such difficulties will only be further exacerbated by the distance between two parents who live far apart. If you want to prevent long distance from compromising your relationship with your children, it is a good idea to establish a schedule and stick to it. Doing so will ensure that the whole family understands expectations.

Use technology to stay in touch

There are many incredible modern resources that allow parents - even ones who live hundreds or thousands of miles away - to connect with their kids and maintain a relationship. Harnessing such technology can help you bridge the distance and remain a big part of your child's life. The many online video communication services and apps available can be more personal than a quick call.

Be as flexible as possible

Though making a plan and sticking to it is one of the best ways to mitigate the strain caused by distance, flexibility is equally important in successfully co-parenting across a long distance. Make an effort to see your children whenever you can and adapt to any changes as is necessary. This is key to ensuring your relationship with your kids remains as stress-free as possible.

Co-parenting across a long distance may be difficult, but it is certainly not impossible. If you are wondering about your legal options in this situation, you should consult with a lawyer.

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